Life With Two...

 
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So, I promise we'll make our way back to some style/fashion stuff one of these days, but for now my life is all motherhood and learning how to juggle two babes! I can't believe we're already two weeks and some change into this "family of four" gig...but so far it's been pretty smooth sailing! I'll attribute that mostly to the fact that Malia is such a calm, sweet girl and she sleeps like an absolute champ. I think life would look a whole lot different if we were dealing with sleep deprivation but since basically night two at home, Malia has been waking up once at night to eat! Insane, right?! London was not like that AT ALL. She wasn't a terrible sleeper - I actually thought she was pretty great - but now that we've got Malia to compare the "newborn stage" too, it's been pretty crazy different. 

If you've been following my pregnancy journey this time around then you probably know how worried/nervous/anxious I was about how London would adjust. She has always been such a mommy's girl and pretty possessive of me - to the point where holding another baby would cause a major meltdown for her. I'm so happy to share that she's been absolutely AMAZING and has adjusted so well thus far with this transition. I'm just so proud of her. Of course, she has her moments as all toddlers/three year olds do ... but overall it's been incredible to watch her embrace her new role as "big sister!" She loves to kiss Malia and calls her "sweetie pie" ... gives her the paci when she's upset and says in the sweetest voice, "it's ok honey!" It's magical to watch! 

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I struggled with some major baby blues for the first probably 6-8 weeks with London. I literally cried multiple times a day and my hormones were so up and down! I've been SO relieved because I don't have any of those feelings with baby number two. It's been the complete opposite. I'm able to be present and embrace this stage more - which I struggled so much with the first time around. I think when you go from zero children to your first child it's a GIANT life change. When you transition from one to two kiddos, you're already in "mommy mode" and everything seems less overwhelming. Basic things like changing a diaper or knowing how to feed or burp your baby aren't a big deal because you've been there, done that. The crying doesn't stress you out as much because you know why they're crying and you're also just used to the chaos :)

Getting out of the house is challenging, I will admit to that. Something so simple as running to Target isn't as simple anymore. I must say, ordering our groceries online helps because it's one less outing I have to plan. We've been hanging at the house a lot and if we do anything, it's in the morning when Malia takes a shorter snooze in my carrier. Thankfully, London loves her new playroom so she doesn't really want to leave the house too much anyway! Malia has been sleeping a good chunk in the afternoon (usually 4-5 hours!) so I haven't wanted to venture out because the sleep is not only good for her but it's good for me! I'm able to get London up from her nap and we can spend the whole afternoon together reconnecting and playing. I think she really loves the time and so do I! 

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In short, life with two is way less overwhelming than I had anticipated it would be! It's been so beautiful and if anything, even more enjoyable than I thought it would be! If you've got a toddler and you're expecting...try to relax. Mom's of multiples told me that too and I still couldn't - so trust me, I get it ... but it will be ok. Your heart really does grow in size when your second is born...yes, you instantly love them just as much as your first, and your first little love is going to be JUST FINE. 

Leave a comment below if you have any questions about juggling life with two or if you're expecting and anxious! I'll def try to give my best advice! 

xx, 

Ashley